Dear Advice Blog,
Most of my friends are gay. I find that I also am attracted to men, but I’m also attracted to women and my attraction towards them is stronger. I’m terrified of the thought of having sex with a man though, it makes me sick to my stomach. I don’t know what I am, or what I should do. Please help.

Dear Straight midwestern boy,
I have found out that in a certain social setting we adapt, just like with drugs… If your best friend does drugs and you are around, you are most likely going to someday try it to get a taste of what it feels like. Experimentation is normal, I have heard stories about my friends trying things with other guys just to see what it is like, some like it and some don’t. I have this belief that everyone isn’t 100% straight. If we all were, then no one would admire people of their same sex. Some people show and express their admiration more for a certain gender or equally in some cases. That is what destinguishes between bisexual, gay, and straight people. I think you should discuss it with a gay friend that you are extremely comfortable and close to and experiment some, just make sure he knows you are trying to find out what you are. Email me back after, or if you need further help.